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Thursday, March 19, 2009

Affirmations and The Flow Of Life

It seems some people have a really tough time with affirmations and give up using affirmations, never having realized their dreams. While the reasons affirmations don't work are varied, one of the more common reasons that affirmations won't work is because some people have a really hard time with life.

I have coached an individual who is a great example of this very thing. We will call him Sam. Sam is a great guy, smart, intellectual and quite witty. Until recently Sam had a very large bolder he was carrying around. For a variety of reasons Sam did not want to accept he was a human being. I know it sounds a little strange but this condition is actually quite common. If any of the following ring true for you you might want to ask yourself if you really accept being here and being human.

  • You feel like you are waiting for life to begin
  • You feel you are inadequate and you have created habitual patterns of needing to be 'bailed out' of situations that you feel you can not fix yourself. Or you find yourself always starting something new, thinking "this will be it..."
  • You have a hard time sticking with jobs, people or locations. Many of these people move a lot, never feeling established or creating a permanent life situation
  • You constantly are praying for 'God' to help you with aspects of your life you want to change. Most of the your 'prayers' are 'help me/I need your help/I want this' prayers
  • You hate your life, your job or your life situation and have lived with this hate for your life all through your adulthood
  • You can not relax or enjoy times when your activity level is not at maximum capacity
Sam was all of these and more. Sam could not relax. He always felt antsy and felt the need to 'get going' like something had to be done.

As I pondered Sam and his situation it seemed to me like Sam really did not want to be here. He even told me he felt the answer was for him to 'just disappear off the planet' and if he could he would. Why was Sam behaving like this?

For Sam the root issue of this behavior seemed to be hyper religious dis-empowering teachings from his childhood and teenage years. I have seen others exhibit the same behaviors when raised in a household where the caregivers where very abusive and domineering towards the children. Children who are adopted also seem to go down this path as well.

Why? It seems that some people come into this world without a concept that it is OK that they came here and they are equipped to be a human being. Not surprisingly if a child is raised and told that he must rely on God for sustenance how could the child then grow to an adult and live and kind of productive life without running to God everyday for help?

I am not saying believing in God is harmful. If you find the practice helpful go right ahead. What I am saying is that part of a successful human experience to think...

  • I have a right to be here
  • I have all the tools and help I need hard coded into my DNA. I can do this human thing myself.
Does reading those points make you feel a little uncomfortable? If it does you might want to really ask yourself if you are OK with this human thing and if you think you are able to do all of it. And when I say 'all of this human thing' I mean living the human experience.

The human experience is one that is about flow and experience. People, objects and experiences flow in and out of your life. Sometimes the experiences are lovely sometimes they are painful. I have never met any human who has only had the 'lovely' part of the flow. Further, when the not so lovely parts happen some people want to run away, rejecting the experiencing and longing for something that has flowed away. Practicing this rejection technique stops of the flow of life and paralyzes you in a vacuum of non-humanness.

If a person thinks they are not equipped to experience the flow of life things like pain, heartache and a lot of stumbling around seem to be the result. Accepting the human experience means accepting you can do this human thing and you are willing to get into the flow of it.

So how does this affect the effectiveness of affirmations? Well, when you really don't think you can do the human experience most affirmations won't make much of a dent in your subconscious mind - how could they? You have already determined you can't do this -- and I mean all of this.

As you can imagine thinking you can't do this human thing is very un-serving and will bring you much pain and confusion because you will have a hard time reconciling being here when you know (or you think you know) you should not be here or are not equipped to be here.

So is this you?

The first step is to admit it might be and the next step is to simply, gently affirm the following

I am open to living the human experience and I welcome the flow of life.

OR

I am in the flow of life and I accept I have everything I need to be here.

OR, one of my favourites...

I am enough. I came to this planet equipped to thrive and flourish.


Be well,

Joan Pasay

PS. You can do this human thing - just like an apple tree has all it needs to grow into a huge tree bearing fruit you have all you need to live the human experience.... Does the apple seed seek out help with on how to grow into a tree, on how to grow an apple? No, and you really don't need to either

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Joan Pasay is just one of the MoneyAffirmationsMP3.com Team, whose lives have been radically changed by the continued use of positive affirmations for money and in every area of life.

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